“I’ll send a reply that basically says, ‘Nice try. Now go away.’ Don’t engage directly. They’re desperate and looking for any opening.”
I took his advice. Meanwhile, Emma started asking questions about what was happening. She’d overheard part of a phone conversation with Richard and knew something was going on with Grandpa’s business.
“Mom, are you the reason Grandpa’s company is having trouble?”
she asked one evening while we were making dinner together.
I stopped chopping vegetables and looked at her directly.
“Yes, because of what they said to us at Christmas. Because of how they treated you and what they showed me about their values. Do you remember how that night made you feel?”
Emma’s expression darkened.
“I felt like something was wrong with me, like I was broken or bad.”
“Exactly. And nobody who makes you feel that way, especially on purpose, deserves to be rewarded. Sometimes protecting the people we love means making hard choices.”
“Are you worried you did the wrong thing?”
she asked.
Her question caught me off guard with its perceptiveness.
“Sometimes. But then I remember your face when they said you weren’t important enough, and I know I did exactly what I needed to do.”
She hugged me tightly.
“I’m glad you’re my mom.”
The validation from my daughter meant more than anything my parents could have said. A week later, I ran into an old high school friend, Stephanie, at the grocery store. She’d always been friendly with Valerie too, and I could see the discomfort on her face when she spotted me.
“Hey,”
she said awkwardly.
“How are things?”
“Good. You?”
“Fine. Fine.”
She hesitated, then lowered her voice.
“Look, I’ve been hearing things about the family situation. Valerie’s been talking.”
“I’m sure she has.”
“She’s telling people you’re having some kind of breakdown, that you’ve become vindictive and unstable since the divorce, that you’re taking out your failures on your parents.”
I felt anger flash through me, but kept my voice level.
“What do you think?”
Stephanie looked uncomfortable.
“I think there are always two sides to every story, but I also remember what it was like growing up around your family. How they always treated you differently than Valerie, so I’m not rushing to judgment.”
“I appreciate that.”
“For what it’s worth, I saw your mom at the grocery store last week. She looked awful, like she’d aged ten years.”
I didn’t respond to that. After an awkward goodbye, we parted ways, but the encounter stayed with me. My parents were waging a social campaign to paint me as the villain, spreading their version of events through their network. I was being portrayed as an unstable, vengeful daughter who couldn’t handle a simple family disagreement. Part of me wanted to defend myself, to tell everyone what really happened. But I realized that anyone who knew me would question their narrative, and anyone who believed it without asking probably wasn’t worth having in my life anyway.
Two weeks into January, I met with David and his team. The partnership was formalized. My investment was secured. When the list of potential construction contractors came up for review, my father’s company was on it.
“This one,”
David said, pointing to the file.
“Robert’s firm. You know them?”
“I do. I can’t recommend them.”
“Any particular reason?”
“Company culture issues. I have concerns about their values and how they treat people.”
David made a note.
“That’s enough for me. We’ll go with the Morrison Group instead.”